How long is too long?

When I say how long I'm not referring to his dick size. For some it's of utmost importance. For others it more about girth than width. And for others the perfect size makes all the difference. But that's not what I'm here to write about today. How long should you continue in a dysfunctional relationship before you call it quits? 


It starts off great and you go for weeks with these butterflies that won't seem to go away. But eventually these butterflies fly away. Where do they go? On to the next guy? I was talking to a friend yesterday who ended a 2 month relationship. The sparks were gone. Will they ignite again? It made me wonder how do you keep the fires burning in the relationship or does the fire burn out as you start to discover the itty bitty details of the other person? What made you like this person in the first place? Was it love at first sight or was it lust? Or perhaps it's a bit of both. We all have different dating habits. Some of us like the attention and when the other person doesn't give us the attention we need, we drift away while others like their personal time and need that alone time each week to be sane. So when is the right time to move away? I guess we all have different variables but a good point to start thinking is when you stop missing having the other person around.


With so many men out there, the thought that floats through my mind is 'will we ever find someone that's just right?'. 


^^melocoton^^

Another one bites the dust...

I guess we should briefly catch you up on our dating history. Yes, it is a history and sometimes I wish I could delete some of those chapters and keep only the glowing parts. But like with any history it’s the lessons you learn and take away from each relationship that is really important while avoiding a repeat. We all make mistakes and fall for the wrong guy only to realize that he is not ‘the one’ but that’s part of the game and you’ve gotta play to win.

It will be three weeks tomorrow since my bf broke up with me. I wish I could say it was hard for me and it broke my heart. Well it did a little bit. But you should also know that we’ve had these similar talks three times before in the past and this final fourth time I was just ready to move on. I was speechless. Merely for the fact that it caught me off guard. There were no warning signs. It just crept up on me like turbulence. Unprepared. But I think it is for the better so I would like to thank him for doing the dirty work. After nine months if you can’t find solid ground then for sure it’s time to move on. Sure we had a great time with each other but there was something missing...those are his words.

It’s been three weeks and I look on the bright side of life and move along and continue living another day...single...but happy...and wondering...where is he where is he where is he where is he?!

^^melocoton^^